Venture

Assalam o Alikum Lovelies 😇

I hope you’re good and life is treating you well.

I’m sorry for being this late, I had my mids and then just like everyone, I procrastinated.

Umm, it’s time to write and I want to share my views today.

My parents, especially my father firmly believes in the saying “A friend in need is a friend indeed” and throughout my life this was one lesson he kept on revising and from the age of 13-19,  I never really understood it. I never even tried.

And that is because I thought it had nothing to do with me because I have some really good friends around who will always stay by my side no matter what.

But then with time I began to realize what he really meant.

IT’S THE INFLUENCE OF PEOPLE AROUND US

So buckle up.

Being an extra-friendly person I multiple ‘friends’ till now.

Someone’s family background, their marks, their living standards and their ‘INFLUENCE’ were never really the features I looked as I called them my bestie or my Group.

On a separate note, it is said that one should make friends with people belonging to the same status as theirs, why? Do share your opinion about it 😃

I’ve grown mature and I have begun to see when and where I made mistakes even when my family tried to stop me but being the youngest one I was never forced to do anything. They only guided me throughout my life and Alhamdulillah they’re still by my side.

Ummm,

We all know about good and bad influence.

I don’t consider it to be only in the case of friends, this applies to human beings in general.

At the moment I can see how easily influenced we are.

We never search in depth. We never really go deep enough to dissect anyone’s personality. 

We became shallow. We become the person who look only for the things they wish to see in the other person and love them or hate them without any real reason. 

I Don't Remember The Day Exactly But I Think I Made It While Waiting For The Food

"We live in a world where hate is relative. Hate is because we believe someone is better than us, someone is good at what he/she does. We hate a person who gets more attention, we hate a person who excels in sports even though we have never participated in them, we hate people because their goals are clearer, we hate people because their economic standards, their attire, their satire isn’t something that we would ever approve of. We hate people who are above us, who are below us and even those who are trying to be us."

And we never ever try to eliminate the misconceptions we might have. We cling to our judgements so strongly even when we see that 90% of them are baseless.

To hate we cling but to love, we don’t even attach ourselves.

Ummm, all these things are not only in case of relationships.

This feeling is not attached to humans only. For example, your sister said she watched a movie and didn’t like it. You’ll consider her opinion and cancel the plan you made with your class mates because you now think that you won’t like the movie too

In the same way, I see how someone’s opinion in case of hate spreads way too easily.

No one asks for authentication and reasons, we just start hating. We start finding reasons to hate.

We start finding negatives and sometimes even we start forgetting the positive things.

We never try to question others and never strive to develop our own opinion and do our own research

What I want to say is when we know that someone’s negative opinion is affecting our life, it’s changing our opinion in a negative way, we should develop the courage to establish our own outlook and look for even a tiny spark of goodness in everyone

We need to define our priorities.

Spread love not hate plus we all need to share the good, when we know that two people are wonderful individually but they both don’t like each other because of some reason we should not support the hate. Rather, we should try sharing the good things about both of them in person so that the differences can be eliminated.

Let’s work together for the betterment.

Loneliness is good when it makes you a better individual instead of living amongst a crowd where you’re only contributing to hatred.

And I see how few clever people take advantage of others.

Taking advantage of someone’s weaknesses is something pathetic. We need to help each other grow strong and we should be happy when we see the other person happy even if he or she is not in great term with us. Trying to cause problems is of no good, because in return they might do the same to us and the cycle goes on.

Let’s contribute positively from our side everyone 😇

Over and Out

With love💓

Umm,  Do share your opinion People.

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